What Dominants can learn from Pimps.

Pimp SnookyPimps are traditionally defined as: men who manage their prostitutes (hoes) and procure clients for them, taking a portion, usually all, of their earnings in return. Pimps have been around for as long as the trade of ass for cash.

I know what you are probably thinking… Probably that I am reaching really high for observing the similarities between the two. The truth is that they are very much a lot of similarities between the Pimp Game and BDSM. The Game is just as organized and devout in corporate America as it is in the streets. In the case of corporate America, The CEO is the Pimp. The most that a CEO does is delegate jobs to the appropriate channels. Since he is at the top of the pyramid, he gets the most reward for little effort. The employees are the hoes. They work long and hard hours. They sacrifice their health, family time and overall sense of well being. They depend on their CEO for survival. They are committed to their CEO’s cause, working arduously in hopes of climbing up that corporate latter and being “at the top” someday. In reality, only the “unicorns” make it to the top. The rest get used up until they aren’t able to perform as well as they have performed in their golden age and are discarded as a result. People have faithfully worked at the same jobs for decades, committing to the company until they are discarded at the cusp of their retirement with no fucks given nor nothing to show for the hard work that they have committed.

This system, the game, reinforces its self and thus is very difficult for the CEO or Pimp to collapse from position (unless not complying with the rules of the game). The game is stable and has endured the test of time across all genres. The game is symbolic of the pyramid. There can only be one Leader to an infinite number of followers.   The truth is that most people subconsciously prefer to be follower, they desire to be told what to do, how to do it and when to do it. Everyone despite ethnicity, religiosity, creed or sexual orientation has the same opportunity to be the CEO as anyone else. But the majority’s nature is to be the faithful employee.

Here is a list of notable sayings in the pimp game. Notice how it can and has been used in the BDSM world.

Purse First, Ass Last

 

In the pimp game, there is a common phrase, “A hoe can’t try you before she buy you.” Pimps won’t fuck a potential bitch unless she proves that she is not a flake and is serious about committing to the pimp. She does this by providing a down payment, referred to as a “Choosing Fee”. This investment works to solidify a commitment between her and her pimp as well as keeping her wanting more. A pimp having a Choosing Fee shows that he has the higher value.

Choosing Fee isn’t such a bad idea. There are plenty of flaky charlatan submissives out there that only want to waste one’s time with false inquiries just to get their little cocks off. A real submissive that have always had the desire to submit to a real dominant alpha male is much more likely to pay a choosing fee in order to fulfill their need to be submissive to a real man. Choosing Fee will eliminate a lot of the flakes as well as well as keeping the bitch wanting you more as they have literally added more to the Dom’s value. Choosing fee doesn’t have to cut into the submissives survival expenses but it should be enough to show that you are serious in investing his worth.

Don’t Chase ‘Em, Replace ‘Em

 

It is never good to chase after someone as it lowers one’s values. Only subservient bitches chase leaders; not the other way around. Pimps understood that by chasing the hoes, it would only serve to put the hoes in the driver’s seat. One of the most emphasized mindsets in the pimp game is the “pimps are always first”. It’s very important to always say what you mean and mean what you say. If a bitch won’t oblige then kick their asses to the curb. Pimps have an “all or nothing” mindset. If you give a bitch an inch, they will instinctually take the fucking mile ALWAYS!

Bitches Choose

 

As stated earlier, bitches pay a choosing fee up front to show a pimp that she is invested in her prospective pimp and is prepared to give him more money and effort. Choosing fee effectively cuts out all of the flaking and selfish pseudo-submissives who only are concerned with satisfying their own carnal desires.

Keep Your Front Up

 

Keeping your front up means always making sure that you are always perceived as the most valuable. The more you appear valuable, the more likely the submissive will do any and everything to stay in your good graces. The truth is that no one wants a basic or average Dom. Mediocrity doesn’t inspire fear, respect and lust. Being perceived as more valuable doesn’t mean to be a “label queen” or use other things to make-up for your virility. It is important to entice your submissive(s) with your masculinity through all of their senses. To look like a man, smell like a man and feel like a man will grant you much more control and loyalty in the long run. Always keep yourself lean and muscular at all times. It is just as important that you establish your independence from the matrix and being your own free man.

Get a Run Down

 

It is very important to know everything about your bitch from the start. The more a pimp knows of his bitch’s prior history, the more he can control her with it. Things such as relationship history, sex history, drug use, family dynamics, goals, passions are all very important in motivating your bitch.

Break a Hoe

 

Breaking a hoe down is no different from the methodologies of the military or any fraternal initiation. Breaking someone down is the process of breaking down one’s ego and willpower in order to make them more receptive to a new set of beliefs. In any relationship there must be only one person calling the shots and the other(s) following. When a bitch has a strong ego, it makes them very willful and less receptive to new ideas and suggestions.

Don’t Give a Hoe No Dough

 

Most pimps actually get 100% of their hoe’s earnings. In return he pays for every expense such as rent, groceries, shopping and cosmetics maintenance. The pimp dictates what, when, where and how he allocates their earnings. The purpose of this tactic is to always keep the bitch dependant on the Pimp. It also enhances the pimp’s power.   It prevents the hoe from leaving because she knows she needs to pay either for rent, food or another choosing fee.

Let Your History Be a Mystery

 

Pimps always keep an aura of mystery on themselves. They allow their bitches to daydream and fantasize about his back-story. Bitches can care less of a Dom’s/Pimp’s life story. They are only concerned with the masculine energy that they provide. Being mysterious allows you to be more powerful as you are elusive and not as predictable.

Pimps Up Hoes Down

 

The most notable of all quotes in the pimp game; “pimps up, hoes down!” It is the motto that every true pimp lives and strives by. In the game, the pimp is seen as the lion. He does no hunting but is always the first to eat while everyone else gets his leftovers. His sole responsibility is to protect his pride from predators and other invaders. Hoes stay “down”, giving their time and devotion for the pimp’s aspirations. Hoes also stay down by always making sure that they are in a subservient position. Never give a bitch shit as it keeps a bitch dependent and obedient. The bitch must know that their place is always beneath you no matter what. In addition, Pimps up hoes down also means that a pimp must always strive to be his best version of himself. A pimp always comes first before his hoes. He is to be respected at all times above all others. His instruction must be followed to the fucking letter.

A Pimp Only Loves Himself

 

A real pimp only has love for himself and the game. A pimp couldn’t afford to fall in love with one of his hoes because falling in love is perceived as a sign of weakness. This weakness will allow him to be manipulated like a trick and that will cost him dearly. There is nothing wrong with being affectionate with your bitch; I’m not disputing that. It is very important that you don’t let your emotions take control and cloud your judgment; that is a bitch trait. A real man/leader/pimp/dominant balances his logic to the submissives emotions. Remember that the Dominant is always the greatest prize.

Get a Bottom Bitch

 

A bottom bitch is a pimp’s most favorite bitch out of his stable. The bottom bitch is usually loyal, devoted and committed. She is blindly in love with her pimp and is willing to do any and everything to make sure that her pimp gets to the next level and is pleased. She maintains the day to day operation of his business. She is the mentor to the new initiates during training to make sure that the new bitch gets all of the proper instruction needed to succeed. She is also pivotal in the recruitment of new bitches.

Proper Instruction Bring Proper Production

 

Hoes and submissives are lost little puppies needing a leader, a fucking man, to guide them, love them and take care of them. Most hoes choose a pimp because they can’t manage their money or their life and need someone else to do so. A hoe depends on the Pimp’s instruction ranging from what to do to please him, how to make more money to how to achieve her (or his) life’s goals. An instruction can be anywhere form how you like to get your dick sucked off to the rules of the house to what they are allowed and not allowed to do with tricks. It is important to say what you mean and mean what you say. Never let your bitches get any “passes”.

Keep Your Hoes On Their Toes

 

A pimp always expects more of his hoes. He always subtly pushes things further and further. She must always be focused on striving on goals set for her. If at first, for example, she or he doesn’t like to lick a guy’s asshole. It is the Pimps duty to motivate her to experimenting and eventually enjoying the act of licking a guy’s asshole. Always push a hoe’s limits further and further. The purpose is to never let a bitch think that they are the shit and can’t be told anything. When they feel like they have nothing new to strive for, they begin to get lazy and can potentially rot the entire stable.

Check a Bitch The First Time Around

 

Girlfriends, wives, boyfriends, submissives, hoes and etc. have the same thing in common. They desire to prove how dominant their partner is by throwing “shit tests” at them. A shit test is a test that someone, typically the submissive partner, would perform to assess how the other would react and test the established boundaries. It is inevitable that a submissive will throw a shit test at you to see how much of a man you really are. Pimps check this behavior the first time around to:

  1. establish that he means fucking business.
  2. prove that he is above her so that she can subconsciously worship him.

***Note: Pimp must never exert their authority with violence. Pimp with your mind and never your fists. ***

Sell The Dream

 

A hoe is always searching for something. More than likely, this something is always an unrealistic fantasy. She is motivated by her insecurities and desires to fulfill herself. Just like a boss at a job, pimps dangle the carrot of material comforts and emotional security of her to keep her motivated to the cause.

Know When To Fire a Hoe

 

A pimp power comes from placing himself on the highest pedal stool. He holds himself to the highest standards and expects others to do so as well. A true pimp is ready to fire a hoe who won’t respect his program to the letter.

 

Following these rules, as Dominants of course, is definitely beneficial to enhancing dominance and virility over submissives. What are your thoughts?

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